The Couple Part 1: An Unlikely Pair

ImageLots of people have asked me to tell them our story. I am going to give you the “girl time version”. I have shared it many times around the campfire underneath the backdrop of the brilliant Kalahari skies with hundreds of girls with Teen Mania outreaches through the years! Maybe we don’t have a campfire, but thanks for joining me!

Our story starts with us, I was 24 years old and working at LuMatt Productions in the Christian Concert Industry. I was a promotor of major Christian Concerts with artists like Amy Grant, Sandi Patti, Michael W. Smith, Russ Taff, Michael Card, Wayne Watson, Kathy Troccoli, and many others. One Texas tour we put together was with an interesting Duo- Michael Card, with his mellow, ballad style and Leon Patillo who was formerly with “Earth, Wind and Fire”. – well, that speaks for itself! The last date of the tour was in Houston Texas at the Houston Coliseum. The show was packed and the crowd was electric! I had invited Carla Andrus, my friend and announcer of a leading Contemporary Christian Station to be the MC that evening. She asked if she could bring along her brother and his friend, Jerry Lackey. They had both attended Pastor John Osteen’s Lakewood Bible Institute.

After the concert was over, we all kicked back –backstage, with a sigh of relief from LuMatt Staff and the artists that we had completed the tour and their families. It was then that I was introduced to Jerry Lackey for the first time. He was with Harold, Carla’s brother, who was 18 years old. I could only assume when I met Jerry that he was also around his age, because he certainly looked it! I remember thinking to myself, “Its too bad he’s so young, he seems like a really neat guy. I wish he were older”. Then I dismissed it as just a nice wish.

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Dirty boys, Drought and Desparate Measures!

Image1996-97 was a terrible season of drought in Northern Botswana. We lived on the Boteti River and the very last pool of water from the Okavango Delta was in front of our house. In that pool lived 32 Hippos who were hanging on to their last days of life. They were literally starving to death. Their home-the Boteti River was dwindling in the Kalahari sun by the day. The smell of death was all around and nothing could be done about it.

Water was hauled in the back of a Hilux Toyota pickup. Water rations were just a part of life. By this time I was pregnant with our 3rd son and we had 2 very active boys who loved to play in the dirt! “a dirty kid is a happy kid” one mama of kids raised in the Botswana bush taught me. So true. There was an old generator that we turned on in the evening for some lights and Video taped shows.

Bath time was especially eventful. We would fill the tub with about 6 inches of water that the whole family had to share. The cleanest person got to go first, which given the family dynamics, that person was usually me! By the time we got to the last bath, that water was black! We then dumped the water down the toilet. We used the “if its yellow let it mellow, if its brown flush it down” method, to stretch the water we did have. Any other water was used to water what little green there was around the house.

The grand finale of this season was a mysterious fire that destroyed the house and all its contents, leaving us with a new baby boy and 2 sons-homeless. We wrapped up business and travelled to the USA to my mama’s place in Texas. We arrived exhausted from the journey. When I went in to take a shower I just stood under the water and cried. It had been a tough couple of years. It didn’t feel right to let the water flow like that. I felt guilty. But wonderful at the same time.

Eventually the rains came to our village and gave moisture and life to the dry land. Sometimes our lives are like that. We get dry-dirty-thirsty. We need the rain to come. God desires to pour out his love on us like that shower in my mama’s Texas home. So glorious, so, almost sacred, is that water. Refreshing and restoring my soul from a very difficult season.

The bible says, Revelation 22:17 (ESV)

The Spirit and the Bride say, “Come.” And let the one who hears say, “Come.” And let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who desires take the water of life without price.

We have all heard the phrase “water is life”. I can tell you I know it is true. But there is a river of water that never will run dry. And that is God’s love to his kids. Jump in, enjoy, let it wash you clean and be refreshed.

Baboons and Babies

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My firstborn son, Remick, was less than 10 days old. Born near the farm at a small hospital in the bush of Africa, and 2 weeks overdue, our time was drawing near to travel to the USA. Jerry had to make one last trip up to the remote area in Botswana that we now call home. It was just me, my new baby boy and a whole lot of farmland and wild animals. The house had no electricity or running water. We were on our “african adventure” and roughing it was what we thrived on. At least till the kids started coming along!

A vegetable garden was my pride and joy, next to my new son of course! I heard a bunch of noise outside the window and when I looked I saw a troop of Baboons having a party in the middle of my -almost ripe-garden! Out of instinct, I grabbed Remick and put him on my hip and went back to the window to figure out what to do. If I went outside it could put us in danger. I am a person who takes risks for sure-but I decided to open the window and give the intruders a piece of my mind. It didn’t take long for me to realize that the whole house was surrounded!

The alpha male had the nerve to steal my long awaited, beautiful, plump, sweet watermelon and had it under his arm! I opened the window and with all I could muster up, began to shout at those baboons and told them to get out of my garden and leave my watermelon alone! They just looked at each other and kept on partying. They eventually left that evening, watermelon tucked safely under the baboons arm.

While I didn’t win the stand off, I am reminded of the need for us to stand our ground for things that are important to us. I tend to get myself in to trouble often. My wise, calm husband always reminds me to “choose my battles carefully” but I don’t always follow that advice. I thought I would get better with time but it seems I still have “passion” for some things that just seem to land at my doorstep or I my yard like the baboons. I have 4 kids now, 2 grown and 2 at home, but I have a lot more out there that consider me their “mom”.

I hope that I can, through this blog, channel some of that energy to do some good, even to ignite passion in people to make a difference with the influence God has given us, to protect the “garden” entrusted into our care. Baboons, babies and all, let’s give it our best shot!

photo: Copyright © 2012 Mary Robbins

The Angry Hippo & Andy the Invincible

Image The Angry Hippo & Andy the Invincible. There was once a black Labrador named Andy. He lived along the Boteti river in a place called Xobe, in Botswana, Africa. Andy had a brother who was a golden Lab named Barney, sometimes the owners would call them by whistling the tune to the “old black and white” TV show theme song to Andy of Mayberry. Together they were unbeatable for killing snakes. One would distract while the other would grab the back of the unlucky reptile’s neck and together they would rip it apart until the last writhing piece of flesh became still.

ImageThere was a drought and the last pool of water from the Okavango Delta was right in front of the house on the Boteti River. Around 30 hippos were camped there. One day, Andy got the bright idea that he would take a swim with the Hippos. Labs just can’t resist a good swim! So Andy jumped into the water and onto the back of one of the Hippos. There was such a commotion that everyone ran out to see what was going on. I don’t know if it was a stoke of luck or an answer to the prayers that were being screamed out by an onlooker but, eventually, Andy gave up and returned to the banks of the river. Miraculously, Andy escaped death that day. He had the time of his life and had no clue how lucky he was to be alive!

This is a true story. I know because I was the one screaming out the prayers for my dog, Andy!

Sometimes it happens like that in life. We find ourselves in the middle of a very bad situation, with no clue of how dangerous it really is. We normally find our kids in these kinds of situations and somehow, God delivers them. But sometimes, He doesn’t and bad things do happen. If only the dog would have listened to my protests. He wouldn’t have stayed in that situation for long. But he just jumped on the back of that hippo and hung on. The picture will be forever embedded in my mind. A dog an the back of a hippo, barking and holding on for dear life!

There are people in our lives who, whether we like it-or them-or not, help guide us and keep us safe, help us be productive and who just help us to be better than we are. Sometimes its a boss, other times a friend or a family member. I once read a book called “Irregular People”. It talked about that someone in your life that you can’t ever seem to get rid of, that gets under your skin like no one can! Even that person in our lives has a purpose. It builds character like nothing else can. I hope I can be someone who will listen. That those around me who can see trouble coming my way will be able to be heard-by me. And when I am in the “hippo pool” that I will have enough sense to get out fast and make it safely to the shore.

Malachite Kingfisher

Malachite Kingfisher

God cares!

On Saturday I  heard a loud “bang” on the window. It was a familiar sound as birds often mistake it for open air. Later on, I was outside and I saw a beautiful, but stunned, Malachite Kingfisher frozen in position. I gently picked him and left him on a limb high from the ground to get over the shock. Several hours later, he was still there. Me and the 7 children who were guests at my house over the weekend made a little nest in a big glass lantern box and got him settled in. The magnificent little creature was alive, but not eating or drinking. Another day passed. This morning, I placed the glass box on a pole near a tree. As I looked on, his eyes locked in with mine. I could see he wanted to live, to fly, but maybe he was damaged beyond repair.

I decided to pray a simple, child- like prayer. I reminded my creator, that he created the birds of the air and that bible says that even of a sparrow that falls to the ground-you see and care about it. He was likening it to how much more he cares about us as people!

A few hours passed and I glanced out the window to check on my new found friend. He was gone! I ran out to see and sure enough, he found the strength to make flight! I am reminded of how very much God listens to our prayers. There is no prayer too small for Him. Its so easy, as we get older and “wiser” to make it so complicated. God Cares. God listens. He really does.